I think it might be time to get back to utilizing the therapeutic benefits of this book. Things are a little rough - not in a slump, I'm chemically enhanced! - but growing pains, maybe.

I think I might finally be over Fabe. Over thoughts of getting back with him, anyway. That's nice. But am I ready to date? Am I ready to put myself out there? Am I ready for possible rejection?

And then I have to say probably not because just the fact that I am assuming there will be rejection shows me that lavalife probably isn't the best place for me. I know I'll get some hits but I doubt they will be from people I want to hear from. Why am I even doing this, anyway? What happened to the old fashioned way of just living life and seeing what happens?

Okay, let's look at it this way. Say I do get noticed by someone online, he thinks I'm cute, I think he's cute and we meet. I don't want to get deeply involved with anyone. Yeah. I need to back up a little. It's not like I'm even feeling lonely lately. But physically this is not the me that I want people to see. But what about loving yourself and believing that others can love you, too? And to that I say but what about this big fucking spare tire??

Okay, this might turn into a mini crying jag because I'm right in the mood now so just bear with me. Bear with me while I snot and whine about this guy that I can't seem to get out of my head. I HATE HIM. I do. I hate him. I hate him for not being all of the things that I wanted him to be. For not being some of the things that I wanted him to be. I hate him for not fighting for me. I hate him for moving on. I hate him because I miss him and I can't fucking get rid of him. Why can't I get rid of him?

Am I just missing him and loving him so much because I can't have him? I don't even want him, that's the fucking joke. He spends all of his time bitching and saying mean things about his passengers. So what if he's funny? So what if I need a good deep dicking? Stop the madness! Stop the silliness. Just have patience. This too shall pass. It feels like it's talking forever right now but it will - it has to..

For some reason the thought of him with someone else came into my mind today and I almost threw up. Seriously, even now my stomach is turning. And my hand is reaching for the phone.